Death of a Salesman
Posted on Tue, Jun 05, 2012

Just saw the final performance by Philip Seymour Hoffman in Death of a Salesman. Very powerful emotional play. Read it when I was a teenager and swore the last thing I would ever be is a salesperson (go figure), and here’s why:
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I didn't want to be so needy and dependent on others as Willy Loman
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I didn't want to live my life without love from my family
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I didn't want to say things to please vs. say what I really mean
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I didn't want to base my happiness on how and if others received me or gave me an order
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I didn't want to be away so much from my family that we would disconnect
So here are my Death of a Salesman resolutions to be a better salesperson and human being:
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I will say what I want to say in a polite but direct way
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I will revel in my capabilities and express myself confidently vs. in a needy way
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I will help people because I want and like to
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I will try to work only with people I like and there is mutual respect
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I will not define my happiness by how many orders I have
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If you can’t understand my value to you, I will find someone who does
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Being offended or bothered by people being impolite is aligned with needing their confirmation. I won’t be offended any longer.
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I will do things I want to do vs. the things I am fearful about not doing
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I will have confidence that all will be fine regardless of the outcome
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I will travel much less and use technology more
With these resolutions I will:
Nice combination!